ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, theirconversational skills will be as important as any other. THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.FOUR. When you say, 'I love you ,' mean it. FIVE. When you say, 'I'm sorry,' look the person in the eye SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get married. SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight. EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dream. People who don't have dreams don'thave much. NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only wayto live life completely. TEN.. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling. ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives. TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly. THIRTEEN. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smileand ask, 'Why do you want to know?' FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve greatrisk. FIFTEEN. Say 'bless you' when you hear someone sneeze. SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson !SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; andresponsibility for all your actions. EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.. NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps tocorrect it. TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in yourvoice. TWENTY-ONE. Spend some time alone.